Archive - 49Grey

Safety in Numbers

That’s why I like to go dancing: safety in numbers. Madonna is one of the most watched women alive, and she just released a whole album about finding…

Jul 24 • 49Grey

The Weight of Numbers

Data, Not Context

Jul 4 • 49Grey

June 2026

I'd Service The Community, But I Already Have, You See

Happy Birthday George Michael

Jun 25 • 49Grey

Men on Film in a Crowded Bar

Jun 20 • 49Grey

Have You Tried Not Being a Vampire Slayer?

Pride 2026: Buffy & the Gays

Jun 12 • 49Grey

The Gay Millennial

A Generation of Gay Men Left in Limbo

Jun 6 • 49Grey

May 2026

The Private Sector - Reclamation

Alone, Together, and Online

May 29 • 49Grey

The Private Sector - Origins

Sin, Sickness & Corn Flakes: A Historical Look at Masturbation

May 21 • 49Grey

The Dehumanization of Dating Apps

May 15 • 49Grey

The Permission Slip

For our kink-curious friends.

May 1 • 49Grey

April 2026

Invite your friends to read 49Grey

Thank you for reading 49Grey.

Apr 25 • 49Grey

Why is Desire the One Appetite We are Expected to Explain?

On guilt, on attraction, on trial.

Apr 24 • 49Grey

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